What a truly sick world we live in when those of “title” and “power” over others are not outed or convicted of their crimes!!!!

SHAME on the cohorts and corrupt perverts and attorneys who abet them!

The ABA needs to do FAR MORE VETTING of some of these “attorneys.”

Women need to learn to be more independent and discerning about those whom they “protect.”

BTK would be just one perfect example of that!

It happens fare more often than women would even ACCEPT that their own husbands, sons and even their own parents might commit such crimes, but they DO!

“Victimless Act”? I seriously doubt that victims CHOOSE to be victimized.

There is a big difference between those who CHOSE to live in that realm, vs those who DON’t even have a choice, and would NEVER DO THAT, given that choice!

Yes they are unfair, as murderers and other dangerous persons SHOULD be outed. once they have PROVEN to live a life of true remorse, and would truly NEVER offend again (far more rare), which is more often NOT the case.

If someone commits a crime against an unsuspecting victim, and gets away with it, they will probably use those same deceitful devices, and never be caught!

It’s the ones who have terrified and threatened their victims to the point of never being outed are the most dangerous ones who will never be caught, or outed by their enablers and corrupt attorneys!

“You cannot possibly know that the person you answered nor any other person has not accepted responsibility for the harm caused.”

Your assumption that you CAN know that the person HAS NOT accepted responsibility, is equally as possible.

Sandy,

I agree. Many of these “wives” and other unsuspecting women have ZERO idea that “their man” would actually do such a thing to those who are in a more vulnerable situation than the “wife” they choose to “marry.”

There ARE some men out there who specifically and intentionally SELECT unwitting women as their targets, and other women as their “cover,” (eg their spouse) to use as a “character” witness.

I’ve seen several men intentionally select a spouse who they can con into defending “their innocence,” and this is part of the game they use to protect themselves as their cover, vs the vulnerable women they choose to target.

I agree with the fact that those who make FALSE REPORTS are not being held accountable, especially when they stick to those false statements!

The very fact that this is NOT being properly addressed, and ruins TRULY innocent people’s lives, is a serious miscarriage of justice. I’ve sen law enforcement and even attorneys FALSELY LEADING these “confessions,” when they should not be admissible under threat, just for an attorney to “win” the case!

But here’s the kicker:

The main reason this is the worst problem, is because those who ARE VICTIMIZED by crimes that ARE committed, are devalued that much more being of the desensitization by the elements who falsely blame, vs those who are TRAUMATIZED FOR LIFE because of the truly guilty who are never even charged with a crime because they have powerful attorneys and friends who make powerful threats against a victim reporting them, yet they will NEVER BE CAUGHT or outed because of corruption of law.

When real victims ARE never compensated for the wrongs against them, those who make false reports only cause more grief to REAL victims.

Those who make false reports need to be reprimanded. When that happens, they need to make charges stick harder on those who ARE guilty.

It’s time that lies are outed, and criminals are contained, in order to stop the brutality against the innocent.

BIG difference!!!!

The mother you mentioned, who ACCIDENTALLY “killed” her child, is FAR DIFFERENT from the INTENTIONAL ACTS of those who have ZERO REMORSE, consideration or concern for his/her intentional acts against his/her victims, and/or subsequently INTENTIONALLY REPEATED acts with yet ever-increasing “numbness” in committing crimes against others, that victimizes other vulnerable victims.

I feel the exact same way as you. Been 25 years now. Im 46. Consensual, one time incident. Victim was 15. Did NOT want prosecution, says he feels awful what happened to me. His Aunt did not like me and it was she who pressured the DA to prosecute. Got a year probation in a plea to a misdemeanor but a LIFETIME of living hell. Im a Mom who has raised 4 wonderful children and taken in others whose home lives were sheer hell. No prior convictions and nothing since. I thank God I am a woman, as its usually made a joke of. I have been lucky enough to have an understanding husband to take care of me because I simply cannot get any kind of job to support myself or contribute. I smoke like a fiend as to ensure I don’t outlive him for I am so frightful of the future. I am scared shitless of most kids. I pick my youngest daughter up from school and I panic being around so many. I have done my best to keep trying to have a somewhat normal life. It simply is not possible to ever move on or live the American dream of being whatever I wanted to be. Everyone does background checks and the humiliation, the sneers, the rejection, the wondering who knows or who doesn’t, the constant fear my child will suffer fallout of immeasurable harm if other kids find out and she too, will suffer for something stupid I did one day 25 years ago. I have contacted the “victim” now 40 to apologize if I had hurt him in some way. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for, that it was he who was sorry. Is this really the best we in America can do? The disgust I feel being lumped in with violent rapists and those that molest infants and small children can not be expressed in words. I often wonder what my life could have been if not for my youthful stupidity. Ive never spent a second in handcuffs or jail in the traditional sense, but my home is ironically my prison and my refuge from a cruel world. Beaten and put in foster homes as a kid, alcoholic dad..the ONLY true bright spot has been my 4 wonderful children and the others I took in when their home lives were a living hell. ALL of them have turned out wonderful, intelligent, responsible and hard working, caring people. One even works as a prison guard for the local jail. I have MORE than paid for my mistake. I took responsability for it and never a day goes by that I don’t dream of being able to go back in time and change that one thing. No matter how much good I do, the outside world only sees the one bad mistake and assume the worst. I was never a threat to anyone, except myself.

I am a registered sex offender. In 2004 numerous county sheriffs deputies and fbi agents showed up at my house around 630 am while I, my wife and children were still in bed. They said they had a search warrant and asked me to voluntarily come down to the fbi office and talk with agents. I went while the others searched the house. At the fbi office the agents asked me if I looked at child pornography on the internet. I replied no. One of the agents pulled a cd out of his pocket and stated that he had and image of a 12 year old having sex with an unidentified male on it that was in a zip file emailed to an undercover agent in new york from my email address. I got up and walked out. The agents at my house told my wife that they must have the wrong house because no computers or pornography was found. They left. 5 months later I was arrested and charged with distribution of child pornography. Bail was denied because I was classified as a flight risk. Public defender shocked me into pleading guilty or face 15 years in federal prison. i was sentenced to 96 months in federal prison over one email. Prison was stupid, a joke. Now I have to register for 25 years. Sex offender on my license, id, passport and on internet. Been through 15 jobs since my release. Currently unemployed, when an employer finds out I am on the registry, they let me go for lying on my application. My wife is an RN so thank goodness I am not homeless, we own our home and live in a secluded area out in the county. Noone bothers us but I do not go out in public locally much. We go out to eat out of town. I dont go around people other than family. I accepted responsibility, was remorseful, contrite, yet I will deal with this forever stigma of being a threat to society for the rest of my life. Whatever. I just want to work and help support my family. I self employ for cash when I can. Searching for something I can make a living at working from home on the internet but havnt found anything yet. I dont feel sorry for myself. Ive secured employment with a railroad company, delivered newspapers, worked for a major auto manufacturer, furniture mfg, concrete company, office supplies company, printer. Before I was arrested I was an airport manager, pilot and physician clinic business manager. Im not allowed to work with anyone under 18 unless I hand deliver a written letter to my prospective employer of my sex offense. Would you hire me if I hand delivered one to you? HA. Now Im contemplating filing for SS disability due to panic attack, anxiety, ptsd and paranoia. It was suggested that I do this. Life goes on.

omgosh our stories are alot alike. i dont knoww where your from but in Alabama if u are married he can be in the house